Humans Above Boundaries
START A SAFE SPACE GATHERING
Starting a Safe Space Gathering (SSG) is easier than it sounds. You don’t need to be a counselor or public speaker—just someone who cares deeply and can create a sense of safety and respect among friends. HAB provides all the materials, training, and support you need.
SSG in Brief
A Safe Space Gathering (SSG) is a small, confidential conversation circle—usually 5–7 women—who meet to share their experiences and feelings around abortion or reproductive care. The Host’s job is not to lead a discussion but to create the conditions for honesty and listening.
Here’s an easy-to-follow 6-step path to becoming a Safe Space Host:
These walk you through the process from initial curiosity to your first Gathering, with HAB beside you at every stage.
HOW TO BECOME AN SSG HOST
1. Watch and Reflect
View these two SSG trailers, which show a typical attendee exchange and then the full Hosting process in brief.
Since you’ve already read the OW@T/SSG Presentation, you’re ready to take the next step.
2. Learn What Hosting Involves
Read the SSG Host Overview and Host Agreement. These explain HAB’s values, confidentiality standards, and how we help you prepare before your first Gathering.
3. Connect with HAB
To become a Safe Space Host, email your signed Host Agreement to HumansAboveBoundaries.info@gmail.com.
Once we receive it, we’ll send you the full Host Orientation Kit—including guides, reflection prompts, and access to our video tutorial—so you can begin right away. (click here to see the kit's Table of Contents).
4. Gather Your Circle
Invite 4–6 trusted friends who understand the purpose: a safe, nonjudgmental space for sharing and listening. A home living room, porch, or quiet outdoor spot works beautifully.
5. Hold Your First GatheringFollow the SSG Host QuickStart Guide and video tutorial to set the tone, open the conversation, and close respectfully. HAB’s materials include sample invitations, guiding questions and reflection prompts.
6. Stay in Touch
After your first Gathering, you can debrief with HAB, share anonymous feedback, and decide whether to hold another. Each group grows at its own pace.
READY TO BEGIN?
You can start today by reading the Host Agreement and reaching out to HAB for your orientation materials. Every SSG begins with one woman deciding that her voice—and others’—deserves to be heard.
Interested but not yet sure you’re ready to sign?
You can always reach out to HAB at HumansAboveBoundaries.info@gmail.com to ask questions or talk through what being an SSG Host involves. We’ll help you understand the process and connect you with others who’ve already launched their own Safe Space Gatherings.